Today I spent the day organizing my office so that it’s more efficient.  Things are finally put away where they belong now, so my house is less scary to more… conservative folk.  I made up a TON of Nipple Nibbler samples, as well as new labels for my Gold Dust, Tasty Tease, Cremesicle Edible Massage Lotion, and RomantaTherapy Radiant Body Lotion samples.  I’m quite pleased with how they turned out.  I’ll try and get some pictures and post them in the next day or two.  Also made up a bunch of goodie bags to hand out over the next month or two so I don’t have to worry about putting them together every Sunday.  Annnd I compiled all my marketing materials, catalogs, hostess rewards brochures, sponsoring brochures, ordering forms, and catalog folders and put together 15 hostess packages, and 15 recruit packages.  I finally feel completely on top of things and it feels GREAT!

What have you accomplished lately?  I want to hear some serious bragging!

Language. Often the right words at the right time can send your lover into overdrive.  Whisper how sexy he is, how much you want him, how hot he makes you, and if you love him, why not tell him?

Talk dirty. Between two lovers, dirty talk at the height of passion can ignite a true orgasmic firestorm.  You may feel the bonds of upbrining holding you back, but it can also feel liberating to let them go.  Look him in the eye, and in a breathless whisper say, “I am so wet for you!” or “I want to ride you, BAD,” or “Lick my tits!”  Then watch him race into high gear.  For real fireworks, when you reach that point-of-no-return, scream out, “I’m coming!”

Express yourself. Instead of words, let him know how good he makes you feel with sex sounds.  This will also guide him to keep doing what he’s doing.  Let your low moans, deep breathing, shake-the-rafters ohhhs and long sensual aaaahhhhs be the soundtrack of your growing arousal.

Listen. His vocalizations are clues to what he likes (and what he doesn’t).  And if you hear him moaning, “Just like THAT.  Yes! Right there.  Don’t stop!” - then don’t stop - no matter what!

Ask. It’s okay to find out what he’s craving by coyly asking, “Does this feel good?” or “Should I rub a little harder?”  If you don’t open your mouth, you run the risk of wondering, “Am I doing this right?” or “Does he even like what I’m doing?”

Talk sex. That’s right, but not just when you’re in bed.  Candid discussions out of the heat of passion can lead to much hotter passion later.

Source - Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! by Dr. Sadie Allison

Have spent the morning attempting to print off some labels for samples I want to hand out at a launch party tonight.  You’d think that if the company provides a template for customizing their product, this template would be accurate.  Not so much!  I hate you, Avery!  *shakes fist*

This is my new little space on the web to discuss my everyday goings on. Huge thank you to Renee for hosting my domain!

Passion Divas are willing to wear sexy lingerie at least some of the time, if their partners like it - and they’ll wear it all the time if they like it!

Passion Divas are free to initiate sex, so long as they’re respectful to the man in question and to any other people who might be affected.

Passion Divas spend a fair amount of time thinking about what they like in bed. After all, who else is going to figure this out, if they don’t? Even the most loving and experienced partner can only do so much without a Passion Diva to point the way.

Passion Divas not only think about what they like - they communicate it to their partners, with or without words. Believe me, their partners are very happy to know!

Passion Divas pleasure themselves - sometimes alone, and sometimes with their partners. They know it’s healthy, normal, and just plain fun!

Passion Divas pursue orgasms “through any means necessary”?

Passion Divas give and receive oral sex if they enjoy it.

Passion Divas use sex toys and sexual products if they want to - and they also feel free to introduce these items into sex play with their partners.

Passion Divas set whatever limits they need to set, whether with a husband, a boyfriend, or a casual relationship.

Source - The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex: Secrets and Techniques to Keep Your Relationship Red Hot by Pat Davis

72% of guy would not be turned on if their girl spanked them with a paddle.

62% of guys do not like lingerie with lots of zippers and laces.

73% of guys would not be turned on if their girl dripped hot wax over their chest.

78% of guys would be turned off if their girl asked them to call her ma’am during sex.

Source - Moves that Cross the Line by Alexandra Foster (Cosmopolitan, October 2009)

1. Sex is a fountain of youth. Sexual activity stimulates your adrenal glands and produces hormones. These hormones support vitality and mood, control fat, stress, and depression, and maintain a youthful vigor, lean body, and balanced immune system. Additionally, these hormones improve cognition, promote bone growth, and keep skin healthy and supple.

2. Sex is a stress reliever. Sexual activity increases blood flow, which provides your body with fresh oxygen and hormones. The physical and emotional release provided by sexual satisfaction reaches your core and melts away stress.

3. Sex is a sleep aid. After engaging in sexual activity, people sleep far more deeply and comfortably. An adequate amount of sleep protects you from a weakened immune system, a tendency to gain weight, and a vulnerability to depression.

4. Sex is a hormone booster. Regular sexual activity boosts testosterone and estrogen levels. Estrogen keeps vaginal tissue supple and protects against heart disease. Testosterone fortifies bones and muscles and keeps the heart healthy.

5. Sex is great exercise. If you have sex three times a week for an entire year, you’ll have burned as many calories as if you’d jogged seventy-five miles.

6. Sex is a pain reliever. Sexual activity promotes the secretion of oxytocin, which stimulates the release of endorphins. Endorphins are natural pain relievers that alleviate aches and pains of arthritis, headaches, and other conditions.

7. Sex is an antidepressant. Endorphins created while having sex are a powerful natural antidepressant. This is reinforced by the balanced hormone levels, improved sleep patterns, and stress-relieving exercise provided by engaging in sexual activity.

8. Sex is a flu fighter. Studies have shown that people who have sex once or twice a week have a 30% higher level of antibody immunoglobulin A, which boosts the immune system and fights off colds and infections.

Source - The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex: Secrets and Techniques to Keep Your Relationship Red Hot by Pat Davis

Good girls don’t wear sexy lingerie.

Good girls don’t initiate sex.

Good girls don’t think about what they like in bed.

Good girls don’t talk about what they like in bed.

Good girls don’t pleasure themselves.

Good girls don’t pursue orgasms through means other than intercourse - and then only in the missionary position.

Good girls don’t give or receive oral sex (and if they do, they don’t enjoy it!).

Good girls don’t use sex toys or sexual products - and they certainly don’t initiate using them.

Good girls do whatever their husbands want in bed, no questions asked.

Source - The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex: Secrets and Techniques to Keep Your Relationship Red Hot by Pat Davis

1. He wants a girl who can turn herself on.

2. He wants sex to be fun.

3. He wants you to drop hints.

4. He wants to watch.

5. He wants you to be naughty.

6. He wants a “Wow, what was that?” experience.

7. He wants to mix things up.

8. He wants nooky out of nowhere.

9. He wants to take you.

10. He wants to do nothing sometimes.

Source - “Ten Sex Cravings All Guys Have” by Jennifer Benjamin at Cosmopolitan.com

1. Sex is good for you.

2. Soul mates are made, not born.

3. Even if you’re a “good girl,” you get to have great sex!

4. If you take responsibility for your pleasure, your pleasure will pay you back.

5. Being sexy is in how you feel, not how you look.

6. You need all five senses to make sex great.

7. For sex at night, foreplay starts in the morning.

8. Your most important sex organ is your brain.

9. Your most important sex toy is your tongue (and we’re talking about talking!).

10. If you want great sex, bring the right women to the bedroom.

Source - The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex: Secrets and Techniques to Keep Your Relationship Red Hot by Pat Davis